Wednesday, October 28, 2009

kebiasaan buruk pasangan

baru sign in msn, kebuka deh itu TODAY menu..
ehh ga sengaja iseng2 buka page ini...
jadi mau ketawa hihihihihi......
sebenernya sih menurut gue emg alamiahnya n naturalnya cowok2 untuk bersikap begini..
tapi ada beberapa pro n kontra dalam artikel ini...
yg kadang seperti men-stereotype-kan laki2.. hehehe...
(tapi bukan berarti gue membela kaum laki2 juga karena mereka emg kadang sukaa sihh bikin bete :P)

taken from: http://news.id.msn.com/lifestyle/okezone/article.aspx?cp-documentid=3673893

Main mata dengan wanita lain
Para kaum hawa tentunya tidak bodoh. Mereka tahu persis saat Anda mencuri pandang atau main mata dengan wanita lain. Dengan pelayan restoran, atau pun gadis di sebelah meja kalian misalnya. Kebiasan ini tentu saja membuatnya jengkel dan tak bisa berhenti mengomel saat Anda main mata dengan wanita tersebut.
Tentu saja kebiasaan buruk ini membuat para kaum hawa berpendapat, pasangannya yang hobi main mata dengan wanita lain, memiliki bakat playboy. Jika kekesalannya sudah menumpuk jangan heran bila si dia akan segera meninggalkan Anda secepat mungkin.
untuk yang satu ini, gue cuma bisa ngomong, kalau emg uda dasarnya co itu matanya punya sensor yg sangat kuat, tajam, dan peka..
sama aja kek misalnya co itu selalu reflek bisa liat paha ce yang tiba2 roknya disingkap angin, padahal anginnya belon dateng, matanya uda bisa nengok duluan cari itu object surgawi sesaat.
atau misalnya emang ada cewek bening lewat, ya jamak aja mata co ngelirik. kita perempuan juga suka ngeliat yang seger2 kok waktu sama pasangan kita..
sesuatu yang ga bisa dipungkiri.
kuncinya ya ngertiin aja uda dasarnya manusia ga bisa puas sama apa yang dimiliki jadi selalu bisa reflek liat yang bening2.
lagian liat aja ga dosa, asal jangan keterlaluan....
tau diri aja deh... ☺

Selalu terlambat setiap kencan
Hal kecil yang bisa menguji kesabaran para wnaita adalah mendapati pasangannya tidak tepat waktu. Satu atau dua kali kebiasaan buruk ini Anda lakoni, mungkin si dia akan memaafkannya, tetapi lebih dari itu peringatan pun akan segera menghampiri Anda.
Namun semakin sering Anda mengulangi kesalahan dengan datang terlambat ditiap kencan, tak menutup kemungkinan si dia akan meninggalkan Anda di lokasi kencan. Oleh karena itu, jika tak ingin membuat pasangan menjadi marah siapkan seribu alasan agar kebiasaan Anda dimaafkan dan kisah asmara pun terselamatkan.

ambil positifnya aja deh..
ngaku aja kalau ce dandan itu lama banget klo mo ngedate (contohnya saya: pernah bikin pacar saya bete karena 1 jam nungguin saya dandan HAHAHAH!)
tapi worth it kan karena cantik? AHHAHA! *pede*

okay, cowok2, setidaknya kalian cobalah lebih on time....
emang bete nungguin cewek dandan..
tapi itu bukan alasan untuk datang terlambat..
at least dateng ngepas sama waktu yang dijanjikan..
jangan sampai bikin perempuan nungguin kalian di rumah..
emang si di rumah sndiri..
tapi apa kalian tau perempuan itu selalu excited nungguin co dateng jemput untuk date???
jadi cepet2 lah dateng...
klo emg ada halangan, kasih tau in advance, jadi betenya yaaa ga bete2 amat. hehehe...

Bergosip
Meski tak semua pria hobi bergosip, namun tak disangkal sebagian pria juga suka bergosip dengan para sahabatnya. Kini bergosip tak hanya menjadi kegiatan para kaum hawa disaat senggang, melainkan ada banyak pria yang mulai menikmati kegiatan yang satu ini. Kebiasaan ini pula yang kerap membuat para wanita kesal. Pasalnya pasangan lebih senang menghabiskan waktunya dengan teman-temannya untuk bergosip dibandingkan menghabiskan waktu untuk bersama dirinya.

errr... ini sih gue ga bisa komen banyak yah..
mungkin problemnya bukan gosip2an...
intinya cowok2, coba deh lebih peka dikit..
kalian kan emang kaum sosialis dimana ada prinsip kalau laki2 itu sama temen2nya ga akan bisa dipisahin...
jadi cewek2 coba aja juga ngertiin dikit..
cuma jadi co juga jangan keterlaluan, coba balance dong waktu ngumpul ma temen sm ce....
trus kalo LDR coba kek pikirin ce nya dulu baru temen2nya..
toh sama temen2nya kan ketemu tiap hari, sama ce nya? hayo??

Pelupa
Kebiasaan lain yang juga dibenci para wanita adalah saat pasangannya menjadi sosok pria pelupa. Konon kebiasan ini akan mendatangkan banyak masalah bila para pria sudah janji dan lupa untuk menepati janjinya pada pasangan. Tak heran banyak pasangan yang kerap menuding pria tersebut adalah pria pembohong, padahal mereka nyatanya lupa dengan janji yang mereka ungkapkan.
Untuk itu, cobalah Anda mengingat kembali ucapan dan janji apa saja yang pernah Anda ucapkan pada pasangan dan usahakan agar Anda tidak mengumbar janji lagi bila Anda masih saja lupa untuk menepati janji-janji Anda.


pelupa, semua orang juga bisa pelupa..
mungkin kekurangan sama co bukan pelupa, tapi kurang peka dan kurang cermat.......
coba deh jadi lebi sedikit peka, emang susah, tp worth it..
mau kan jadi co yang dipuja2 wanita karena "beda" dari co laen?
sedikit usaha bisa disayang banget sama pacar kan anggep ja sebagai hadiah? heehehe......
gausah umbar janji2 jijik kalau emang ga mampu, jangan cuma buat tunjukin kalau lo itu keren ato gentleman. SALAH BESAR...
kalau ga bisa janji, just say it out loud!
it's not that you are some kind of superman..
superman juga punya kekurangan kok...
gausa mencoba jadi perfect atau senengin ce kalau ujung2nya cuma jadi permasalahan yang lead to fight or argument. HARI GINIIIIIIIIII JANJI2? TENGGELEMIN DIRI SONO KE SEGITIGA BERMUDA AJA MANNN! ☺

well ini ga ada maksud jelek2in artikel dr msn sih..
cuma mau kasih sudut pandang yang berbeda aja (mungkin sedikit subjektif n personal?)
but hey this is my blog ☺
no harm lohhhhh hehehhe....

banyak lagi sih contoh2 konkrit hasil research (CIEEE RESEARCH) gue selama ini...
haha...
tapi mungkin next time aja kalau gue pas inget apa2 aja.. hehehe....

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

i am scared.

i can't sleep
or i don't want to sleep?

no matter what i do
i keep coming back to the core
the core where i feel like destroying myself into pieces so i would probably not be going to feel anything

i begin to hate myself
for being so weak
for being so lost in my personal mistranslation mind

im scared the most when i barely know what is going on
when i feel like im blind though i can see clearly
when i feel like im not going get through anything but in fact i havent started anything yet

im scared i lost in this battle right before it starts

im scared for being alone in this moment
moment of truth
truth i don't want to be revealed

or shall i say im scared to know the truth?

but it does not make any sense when i think about what am i afraid of

my eyes become so tired
too tired to be opened
but too afraid to be closed

darkness and silence are perfect combination for another mistranslation
and im completely fragile right now that i wish some people would understand

i want to pray but my will is too weak

shortcut i don't think is the best way to solve everything

i guess i have to wait for thursday afternoon
hope the truth will cease of all pains and worries instead of creating a new vacuum of mind of mine

Sunday, October 25, 2009

im a gentlewoman! LOL

so what makes a man(shall i say woman too?) gentleman(gentlewoman?)?

kenapa ya gue ngerasa kok sekarang KEBANYAKAN co itu ga gentleman..
atau emang susah yah nyari gentleman?
faktor umur is not the crucial thing in this case..
i guess its all about mindset..
a man should be aware that he should treat women nicely.

tapi kayaknya sekarang kok co2 pada ga ada manner sama aturan..
masih ada yang suit2in ce kek seakan2 ce tuh burung x disuit2in..
WE ARE NOT BIRDS OR ANYTHING THAT YOU CAN WOLF WHISTLE ON!
its very inappropirate, it shows disrespect, and its very rubbish!
it shows that men are basically like animal, do this kind of thing to women

apa maksudnya juga kalau ada perempuan lewat matanyaa itu loh..
sampe mo keluar...
ada juga yang kalau ada 1 gang (gang is soooo childish and ungentlemanly! gentleman can stand on his own feet, no backing needed) trus liat cewek cakep, langsung liar..
ketawa2 lah, goda2in lah, cengengesan lah, becanda2...
OH PLEASE....
even if you are good looking enough, if you ever do that, well-mannered women would never want to even look at you!
(do that only to other women who know nothing about attitude and manner)

trus gue sering banget alamin di sini ato di indo...
co itu gabisa antri...
dimana2 uda tau sebelah/belakangnya ce..
at least ngalah...
being a gentleman is all about sacrificion and consideration.
yang bener2 gentleman bisa diitung cuma pake jari tangan!
gue sering naek bus, co2 pada sibuk nerobosin masuk duluan...
sedangkan gue yang ngalah..
loh kenapa jadi gue yang gentlewoman?
hmm....

basicnya jadi gentleman tiap co itu harus tau.
its a must thing!
gue sih ngerasa kesian aja sama co2 yang ga ngerti gimana harusnya treat a woman..

basicnya kan simple (gue aja tau, masa co pada gatau sih... cape de):
1. never ever EVER EVER EVER!!!!!!!!!x10000 talk down to women!
2. always open the door for women, hold it
3. pull the chair for women if necessary
4. pay the bill discreetly, dont make fuss to impress your woman. ITS A BIG WRONG THING TO DO!
5. walk beside a woman, at least dont walk faster than her nor walk too slow; if she is your girlfriend then hold her hand or put your hand on her waist, it shows that you dont want to let her go and women love it
6. carry stuffs for women(a good women also must know that a man with lady bag is so gay.. so dont ever ask your man to carry your bag everywhere as long as you can carry by yourself)
7. look her in the eyes, not at her boobs or ass or thigh or any other part of her body(unless you really want to kiss her, then look at her lips while she's talking HAHAHA! women will know it once she realises your gaze)
8. retrieve drop items even if she's not your girlfriend or ur date..
9. dont forget to say THANK YOU and SORRY(ini problem buat semua orang jaman sekarang, gatau aturan!)
10. behave properly, jaga cara ngomong, postur tubuh, hygiene! (men who stink are so not gentleman and not attractive)

basic rulesnya kira2 gitu..
uda lama juga gue coba jadi gentlewoman, secara co2 jaman sekarang gatau aturan dan ga ada yg gentleman
jadi gue pikir klo mereka ga bisa jadi gentleman, setidaknya gue aja yg jadi gentlewoman.
hahaahhaha..
jadi klo ada yg mau nerobos antrean depan gue yawes, kalem aja...
tapi klo gue keki sih gue maki2 juga.
hahahahh!!!!!!!!!! (biasanya ibu2 tuh gatau aturan.. cape de)
trus klo ada co ga tahan pintu pas gue mau masuk/keluar suatu tmpt yaudaa gue yang bukain/tahanin buat org belakang gue...
simple thing can lead to a bigger one...
well moga2 aja dengan gue bersikap gentlewoman, co2 pada malu ati ma tau diri sndiri.
HAHAHAH!
tapi keknya ga akan lah ya..
nampaknya sudah menyebar virus gatau diri dan ga tau aturan..

mungkin karena itu juga, gentlemen are so rare to find...
hmm...

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Food Critique Pt. I

I've been thinking of posting this kind of post since long time ago, but i had no chance to do it (partially because im lazy HAHAH!)
so here we go...
a food journey or shall i say food critique?
well basically what i do in this kind of post is talking (hopefully not about "rubbish") about foods, places to eat, or anything about foods ☺

first post I dedicate to Tampopo, the japanese resto.
Stanley(fyi he's my friend who's currently staying in USA) introduced me to this *heart* place..
he said that since i love ramen so much, i'd love this place AND I DO! (i thank stan for this hehe)

tampopo becomes my fave jap resto among all (not to mention sushi tei because so far they have the most variety sushi selection), because the ramen is so damn good that you will love it right when you try it! (those who don't like ramen then don't dare to come just to mock and say silly thing)

so, i am the regular costumer in tampopo.
tampopo is located at liang court


i always go there everytime i crave for ramen.
my fave is KYUSHU RAMEN SHOYU but it depends on your taste bud, some say my fave is quite salty compared to the original kyushu ramen..

this KYUSHU RAMEN SHOYU is a pork based soup, added with shoyu (soy sauce), the soup is so thick that you can taste the pork and so rich of flavour, but yet it wont make you sick of drinking it! it doesnt oily or greasy nor too "heavy" for your tummy.
then their ramen (noodle) is superb! the noodle wont get soggy no matter how long you take to eat the (quite big bowl they serve) ramen.
when you munch on the noodle, the texture tastes so perfect in your mouth (indomie jadi sujud2 ma mienya tampopo deee ;P)
then they serve the noodle with boiled egg (don't be mistaken by its simplicity! this boiled egg is another superb item!) once you bite or cut it into half, the warm, smooth, and silky egg yolk will flow nicely in your mouth.. YUM!
then another items are grilled pork, mushroom, and ... this reddish orangy thingy(i forgot what this is called, will update it next time ☺)

everything goes well together when you eat it. YUM YUM

then today i had chance to try new tampopo resto at takashimaya, orchard
IT SUCKS! (ups..)
the ramen was so dissapointing that it tasted so (TOTALLY!) different from the one at liang court.
the soup was so thin that you can barely taste anything but watery salty soup, the noodle was so thin also that you couldnt feel the texture and it didnt absorb the broth (compared to liang court tampopo's)
then the pork was quite tough to bite and the egg was not as good as the usual.
the mushroom was not well done, it was still a bit hard when i bite it
I DONT RECOMMEND THIS TAMPOPO OUTLET!
just go to liang court and have the best ramen there!

Monday, October 19, 2009

ghost at school ending



Ilusi dari langit senja di dunia sana
I Miss You, I Miss You
I Need You, I Need You
Sexy Sexy

Hey
Maukah ke sini?
Kan Ku ceritakan, kisah rahasia padamu

Malam yang berkilauan membasahi hatiku
Waktu tak bisa kembali
Come back, Come back, Come back

Ilusi yang membara dari dunia sana
Bergoyang, bergoyang, bergoyang, bergoyang
Rasanya bagai di surga

Andaikan kita bisa berjumpa di tempat itu
Bergoyang, bergoyang, bergoyang, bergoyang
Sexy Sexy

ghost at school op



tentang dirimu
tentang diriku
tentang siapapun
tentang semuanya
ceritakanlah
kisah yang belum diketahui
untuk bisa memahaminya
kan kubuka hatiku

meski kesepian tapi entah kenapa
tak bisa katakan yang sesungguhnya
padahal kalau bilang hal yang sebaliknya
bisa...
terucap...
begitu saja...

bila hidup dengan hati yang berat
hanya rintangan yang akan terlihat
saat kusadar ku sudah tersesat
hidup seperti itu
kutak mau

andaikan itu
adalah diriku yang lain
maka esok hari pasti kan
jadi lebih baik
kutau itu......
kuyakin itu....

anime dub parade!

gara-gara nonton wedding peach kemaren itu dan denger ending songnya, jadi inget lagu2 anime dub jaman dulu..
kalau ada yg punya link nya atau malah mp3 nya plus lirik, I will appreciate it so much if you want to share it with me! (:

so here we go my anime dub song parade! ;)

Thursday, October 15, 2009

i've got this feeling.

you know the feeling everytime we want to leave place where we used to be staying there for some time yet we feel so bored..
but whenever we want to leave the place, suddenly everything looks more beautiful than we used to know.

the sky is bluer than blue
or it's orangy and so warmth

the clouds look fluffy and comfortable

the road seems so pretty with trees and bushes and flowers

the air seems so delicate and not that hot

the lights seem so cozy

i don't know why..
this afternoon, on the way to changi airport, i realised that everything looks so beautiful..
(in fact everytime i'm leaving singapore, everything seems more beautiful and astonishing than before)

is it because the city wants me to stay and regret myself that i'm leaving?
is it because it wants to mock me the way i usually mock it?
or is it because it wants me to remember all good things happen here?

it's funny because the reason why i'm leaving is because this is my home
but whenever i'm leaving it behind, i feel like some part of my "home" is missing too

i guess i will never know the reason why, eh? (:

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

miyabi goes indonesia? why bother to care? i mean... why make fuss about it?



miyabi ke indonesia.. so?
why most of the people bother to make fuss about it?
what's wrong with collaborating work with miyabi?
she's not that stupid person who does terrorism..
she's not capable of bombing the country
she's not that strong to diminish indonesia or whatsoever..
she's just an innocent look porn star(i mean BIG porn star)
then so what?
what is the meaning of porn star compared to those celebs who think they are not a porn star but act like one?

gue disini ga memihak miyabi or whatsoever (well walo gue akuin gue fans berat miyabi)
tapi dipikir pake logika aja..
apa hubungannya miyabi ke indonesia sm semua keributan n argumentasi yang ada..
sama kontra kedatangan dia..
gue ga melihat 1 alasan pun for her to come n play in indonesia's movie.
if you dont like her THEN SIMPLY DONT WATCH THE MOVIE AND SHUT YOUR **** MOUTH..
if you like her, then watch the movie and just enjoy it..
why bother to shout out loud your silly and stupid and idiot and moron thoughts...
kenapa juga harus ikut2an kata org, oh miyabi tuh bintang porno, ga pantes maen pelem indo dll..

what's the base argument then?
ga ada...
ga make sense sama sekali!
cuma karena dia porn star trs dia ga pantes maen pelem di indo?
kenapa ga bisa mikir positifnya aja..
regardless whether the movie is going to be a hit or not..
bisa masukin "bintang" setenar dia di dalam film produksi indo, bukannya sebagai orang indo bangga bisa pamer ke org laen klo miyabi aja mau ke indo n maen pelem.. malah triak2 ga kruan, sampah, sama sumpah2in miyabi...

gimana mo maju indonesia klo masih muda aja kebanyakan otaknya isinya sampah..

gimana ga gue sebut sampah..
cuma miyabi maen pelem aja tereak2..
gimana miyabi maen pelem porno di indonesia?
waduh, bisa2 miyabi di demo...
wew...
gila x.. lebih2in orang barbar!
ups, tepatnya caveman, yg otaknya ga berevolusi cm bisa pake tenaga doang..

enjoy aja kenapa..
toh ga ada yang dirugikan..
gasuka ya jangan nonton, suka ya enjoy..
as simple as that, why bother to make thing complicated?